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neither, or rather a mix of both. people are so unique that it's kind of hard to understand someone when they're different. sometimes, even a small difference is hard for some people, so we get these wild misunderstandings for really trivial things.
it's whatever world view you want to project. as long as you believe it, it's real. for you at least. which i'd consider real.